Children

Going to court about arrangements for a child

Guides and forms for parents and carers in England and Wales who are applying to the family court, or responding to an application, about where a child lives or spends time, without a solicitor.

Time and cost at a glance

StepOn your ownWith WrenSolicitor
Working out where to startSeveral evenings of readingAbout 15 minutes£250 to £4901 to 2 hours
A long form, such as Form E or the C100Several daysA couple of hours£1,480 to £2,4706 to 10 hours
Getting ready for a hearingSeveral daysA couple of hours£740 to £1,4803 to 6 hours
A position statementA day or twoAbout an hour£490 to £9902 to 4 hours
A witness statementA week or more of eveningsA couple of hours£1,240 to £2,4705 to 10 hours

Times and hours are Wren’s estimates for a typical case, not quotes. Solicitor costs are those hours at £247 an hour, the courts’ guideline rate for a solicitor with over four years’ experience, outside London (GOV.UK, Solicitors' guideline hourly rates (in effect from 1 January 2026)). The guideline runs from £200 to £295 an hour outside London depending on experience, firms set their own rates, and VAT is added on top.

Step by step, and how Wren helps

Open a step for what the court needs and the full guide.

  1. Parenting plans: writing down arrangements for your children

    Wren takes you through a parenting plan topic by topic and gives it to you as a Word draft to finish in your own words.

    What the court needs

    A parenting plan is a written record of the arrangements separated parents agree for their children. It is not legally binding on its own. If you both want it to be binding, you can ask the court to approve a consent order.

    Drafts Wren gives you

    • Parenting plan, as a Word draft to finish in your own words

    Read the full guide

  2. What is a MIAM and do you need one before applying to court about a child?

    Wren explains when a MIAM is needed and what the exemptions are, and the C100 questions record what applies to you.

    What the court needs

    A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting with an authorised family mediator. The rules say you must usually attend one before you apply to court about a child, unless an exemption applies.

    Read the full guide

  3. How to respond to a C100 application about a child

    Wren asks the form’s questions in plain English, one at a time, and fills in the official form from your answers for you to check, sign and send.

    What the court needs

    If you are named as a respondent in a C100 application, the court sends you the application and Form C7. You send the C7, and Form C1A if relevant, to the court within 14 days.

    Read the full guide

  4. Cafcass safeguarding checks and the safeguarding letter: what to expect

    Wren explains what Cafcass usually asks and when, and keeps the safeguarding letter with your case papers.

    What the court needs

    After a C100 is issued, Cafcass runs police and local authority checks and usually phones each party. It reports the results to the court in a safeguarding letter before the first hearing.

    Read the full guide

  5. What happens at a FHDRA (first hearing dispute resolution appointment)

    Wren’s hearing guide says what happens, what to prepare and what to bring, with a checklist kept on your case.

    What the court needs

    The FHDRA is usually the first court hearing after a C100 application about a child. The judge looks at safety, what you agree and disagree on, and decides what happens next.

    Read the full guide

  6. What is a section 7 report in a child arrangements case?

    Wren explains what the report covers and keeps it with your case papers, ready for the next hearing.

    What the court needs

    A section 7 report is a welfare report about a child, ordered by the court under section 7 of the Children Act 1989. It is usually written by a Cafcass family court adviser, or sometimes the local authority.

    Read the full guide

  7. Courses, tests and contact centres the court can direct in a children case

    Wren turns what the court orders into dated steps, so you can see what has to be done and by when.

    What the court needs

    In a children case the court can direct parents to take part in a course, a test or contact at a contact centre. This guide explains what each one involves, who arranges and pays for it, and what happens if you do not take part.

    Read the full guide

  8. What happens at a dispute resolution appointment (DRA)?

    Wren’s hearing guide says what happens, what to prepare and what to bring, with a checklist kept on your case.

    What the court needs

    A DRA is a hearing listed after a report or a parenting programme. It aims to resolve or narrow the issues. If issues remain, the judge sets directions and lists the final hearing.

    Read the full guide

  9. What happens at a final hearing in a child arrangements case?

    Wren’s hearing guide says what happens, what to prepare and what to bring, with a checklist kept on your case.

    What the court needs

    At a final hearing the court hears evidence and decides any issues you have not agreed about your child. The child's welfare is the court's paramount consideration.

    Read the full guide

  10. After a child arrangements order: following, changing or enforcing it

    Wren turns what the court orders into dated steps, so you can see what has to be done and by when.

    What the court needs

    A child arrangements order is legally binding and everyone named in it must follow it. It can be changed by a new agreement made into a consent order, by a court application, or enforced if it is broken.

    Read the full guide

  11. How to write a position statement for a family court hearing

    Wren takes you through each heading the court expects, with made-up examples, and you write it in your own words.

    What the court needs

    A position statement is a short document that tells the judge your position for a particular hearing and what order you are asking for. It is not evidence, has strict page limits, and a fresh one is written for each hearing.

    Read the full guide

  12. How to write a witness statement for the family court

    Wren sets out the layout, numbered paragraphs and statement of truth the court expects, with made-up examples. Every word stays yours.

    What the court needs

    A witness statement is your written evidence, in your own words, signed with a statement of truth. In family courts it follows Part 22 and Practice Direction 22A, and it usually stands as your evidence at a final hearing.

    Read the full guide

  13. How to prepare a court bundle for a family court hearing

    Mark the papers you need and Wren builds one page-numbered PDF bundle with an index you can tap and a count against the page limit.

    What the court needs

    A court bundle is the indexed, page-numbered set of documents the judge reads before a hearing. The applicant usually prepares it, and it must reach the court and other parties at least 5 working days before the hearing.

    Read the full guide

  14. How to get help paying family court fees (Help with Fees and EX160)

    Wren asks the Help with Fees questions in plain English and fills in Form EX160 from your answers, if you apply on paper.

    What the court needs

    Help with Fees can reduce or cover a family court fee. It depends on your savings, your benefits and your income. You apply online or on Form EX160 at the same time as your court application.

    Read the full guide

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